No woman is perfect, and everyone has their flaws as a partner in one or several ways. However, one of the most common character flaws that most women have in common is their jealousy over their partners. Unfortunately, jealousy is a result of insecurity and can be the death of our relationship if allowed to spiral out of control period both men and women statistically prefer confident partners over insecure and jealous ones.
It’s in your best interest to avoid coming off as jealous and possessive as much as possible. So, how do you know if you’re pushing the limits of being too jealous? Here are some of the signs that you’re too jealous.
You Hate The Idea Of Your Partner Going Out On His Own
In a relationship, it’s important to spend plenty of time together to cultivate your bond. However, it’s just as important to spend time apart as it is together. Allowing the other to have a sense of freedom to have friendships outside of the relationship is healthy. However, there are some partners that can’t stand the idea I’m letting their partner go out with friends.
There are some women who, even with an engagement ring on their finger, can’t stomach the idea of their fiance even planning a bachelor party. The problem with this kind of mentality is that eventually, you will steer your partner away. As the saying goes, if you love something, let it go if it comes back to you, it’s yours forever.
You “Social Media Stalk”
Technology has brought a considerable amount of convenience to our lives. We now have the capability of calling anyone in the world for free, sending instant messages, and being able to keep up with our friends’ and family members’ lives. However, some people abuse this ability. With enough know-how, it’s possible to cyberstalk someone and follow their whereabouts obsessively.
Are you one of those partners who’s constantly looking at your partner on the Snapchat map or their Instagram tags? If so, it’s definitely a red flag that you may be suffering from jealousy issues.
You Refuse To Let Your Partner Have Female Friends
Chances are that when you got together with your partner, they had a few female friends. However, if they’ve steadily dwindled away thanks to your undoing, then it’s the sign of a problem period if you dislike the idea of your partner having female friends, then it’s a clear indication of an insecurity on your part. If you’re afraid that having female friends poses a threat to you, then perhaps your relationship isn’t as strong as you might like to think. A healthy relationship is one that you never have to worry about.